Get Good Care

"Love is the will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth." ~ F. Scott Peck

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In many collectivist cultures, couples have traditionally turned to elders and community leaders for guidance - the wise aunties, the grandparents that have been married for 50 years, the mentor couple at the local house of worship . But in today’s interconnected, intercultural and often fragmented world, it can be difficult to find support that feels both culturally resonant and emotionally safe.

That’s where couples therapy with Rameya comes in.

Rameya’s work centers on strengthening your relational bond by identifying and removing barriers to intimacy, nurturing deeper connection, and building skills in emotional regulation and co-regulation — both in everyday life and during conflict.

You’ll receive research-backed, heart-centered guidance drawn from:

  • Imago Therapy (your past matters—but it doesn’t have to control you)

  • Emotion-Focused Therapy (because deep feelings beget deep intimacy)

  • The Gottman Method (yes, love can be studied)

Whether you need practical tools for right now or want to dig deeper into your patterns, this is a space for both short-term wins and long-term transformation.

You are welcome here — whether your relationship is interfaith, interracial, queer, trans, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, or simply outside the mold of traditional expectations. This is a space where your love and lived experience are affirmed and supported.

Whether you're working through conflict, preparing for commitment, or simply wanting to feel more seen by your partner, your relationship deserves support that honors all of who you are.

"Conflict is growth trying to happen."

~Harville Hendrix (founder of Imago Relationship Therapy)

"We are never so vulnerable as when we love. That is why we need to learn how to love safely." ~Sue Johnson (creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy)

"To truly love, we must learn to mix various ingredients—care, affection, recognition, respect, commitment, and trust." ~ bell hooks (from All About Love)

Couple’s Care

Spiritually-Informed Support for Muslim-Couples

Couple’s Therapy Process

  • A wooden bench under a large tree with red and green leaves near a calm lake, surrounded by fog and distant hills at sunrise or sunset.

    In our first session together we seek to better understand your history, strengths and challenges as a couple. We consider what kinds of additional referrals - perhaps to individual therapy, or spiritual support such as a chaplain, imam, scholar, rabbi, or pastor may also be necessary. Relationships go through many ups and downs - together we understand where your relationship is now and where we are trying to go together.

  • A yellow armchair in a room with a window behind it. The window has white blinds, and there is a potted plant and a white adjustable lamp on the windowsill. A black bulldog figurine is on the floor next to the chair.

    Rameya meets with each partner individually to better understand their vantage point into their relationship. This includes better understanding their needs, vulnerabilities and early models for relationships. We discuss what each individual needs to show-up fully and any hesitations you may have.

  • Living room with white sofa, tan leather armchair, round pouf, wooden coffee table, potted plants, decorative pillows, windows with wooden blinds, white walls, and a light-colored rug.

    Subsequent sessions work on building a foundation of emotional regulation so partners can find practical solutions for conflict as well as deeper vulnerability and intimacy. Rameya supports couples in building the safe container to dismantle painful feedback loops and rebuild your relationships with more presence and play. Because love should be a refuge—but for many of us, it’s also a mirror that reflects generational wounds, , and the pain of mismatched expectations. If you and your partner are longing for connection, clarity, or healing, couples therapy with Rameya can help.

Are you a newer couple looking for pre-marital or early relationship support?